8 hours agoAuthor: Kiran Jain
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Anita Hassanandani, who is a popular name in the world of TV, took a break from work for her son Aarav. During this time there was happiness and new hopes in his mind. With the responsibility of becoming a mother, she understood mother's guilt and the need to pursue her passion.
Recently, during a special conversation with Dainik Bhaskar, Anita talked about her experience and struggle.
I took a break from work for my son Aarav:
I have worked in this industry for 16 years. When I thought of taking a break, many things were going on in my mind. I felt this was the right time and it was necessary to take this step. When I took this decision, there was joy in my heart because I was taking this break for my son Aarav. This time was very special for me, where I completely dedicated myself to spend with my child. During this period I never missed my work.
The experience of spending four years with Aarav, his laughter, and his first words; All these were very important to me. Even today I smile remembering those moments. She is a beautiful part of my life.
Mom Guilt Really Happens:
It was very difficult for me to return to work again. During the time of Covid, everything was delicate, and I felt as if I was embarking on a new journey. It was a challenge to come back to a new environment and prove myself again. Mom guilt is real, it was very heavy for me. But when I got the show 'Suman Indori', I got a new hope.
It was a beautiful role and I got a chance to work with a great team. When I went to the set the first day, I had high expectations, and everything went very well. I felt that I had regained my strength.
When I am on the set, I feel very empty without Aarav:
It is very difficult to maintain personal and professional balance. On one side I have my work, and on the other side my son Aarav. I miss Aarav every day, and when I am on the set, I feel very empty without him. Working on a daily soap is challenging, but it is my choice, and I want to do it.
Sometimes, I call Aarav on the set to see him. When I have him, everything feels right. But when he is not there, my heart feels very empty. I also love my work very much, and it is a difficult journey for me. I am trying day by day to understand what to choose and how to proceed.
The experience so far in the show has been quite emotional:
The experience so far has been very exciting and emotional. I have to do a lot for the character of Devika, and when I get immersed in the character, sometimes I feel like I lose myself. I never thought that I would say to a creator for a character, 'Man, there are so many layers, I am getting confused.'
But with this character, I am living it to the fullest. I really feel very happy playing this role. It is not just a character for me, but a part of some of the most beautiful moments of my life.